Different Handle For Now
What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 8:58PM Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Things you have said or things you have left unsaid.
Old Miler
RE: What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 9:06PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Unsaid for sure
Ghola
RE: What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 9:33PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
No doubt, unsaid. I'm planning to correct one of the things I left unsaid later this summer, so my regrets may shift over to things I said.
Weary
RE: What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 9:59PM - in reply to Ghola Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Unsaid. I'm one of the really old couple here and I do have some self-discipline and decency and I can't even recall a single thing I regret having said. But unsaid? Yeah, plenty. Most of it to women when I was younger, or to adults I was intimidated by but should have just confronted.
confused about mileage
RE: What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 10:30PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
unsaid. I wish I had the self-awareness to tell people I was hurt, rather than get angry and do mean things that seemed to them to be completely random.
not misunderstood
RE: What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 11:29PM - in reply to Weary Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
In complete agreement with Weary. Unsaid to several women about life-changing decisions, and I left many words unsaid to so-called mentors, authority figures, or those who were in positions of trust who behaved inappropriately. I was always taught and thought it was best to keep the peace and hold my tongue, but for this I now have reservations.

At some point I would like to just call it as it is, instead of stepping carefully around everyone's feelings.
Intergalactic
RE: What do you regret more? 5/19/2012 11:32PM - in reply to confused about mileage Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

confused about mileage wrote:

unsaid. I wish I had the self-awareness to tell people I was hurt, rather than get angry and do mean things that seemed to them to be completely random.


I feel you there. Additionally, I have a lot of difficulty asking for help, which has definitely harmed some of my relationships (e.g., being depressed/anxious and pushing people away rather than opening up about it and asking for support).
Coffeebean
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 6:30AM - in reply to not misunderstood Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

not misunderstood wrote:

In complete agreement with Weary. Unsaid to several women about life-changing decisions, and I left many words unsaid to so-called mentors, authority figures, or those who were in positions of trust who behaved inappropriately. I was always taught and thought it was best to keep the peace and hold my tongue, but for this I now have reservations.

At some point I would like to just call it as it is, instead of stepping carefully around everyone's feelings.



Could bot agree more.
in hind sight
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 12:39PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Things said. I'm someone who usually says my peace and tends to be open and honest about my feelings. Over the years, there have been one or two instances where I wish I could take back a few things said in the heat of an argument or disagreement. I do not have the ability to hold back my emotions like a lot of people; however, I also do not have a problem expressing my feelings to my friends/loved ones.
runn
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 1:10PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
Given those two choices I would say unsaid. But, it's more some decisions on what I DID, rather than said.
That said- I realize that I am happy (at 53) and my decisions on what I did and what I said and didn't say got me where I am today.
What minor change in my past would have completely altered where I am today.
But- what action or words, spoken or not, got me where I am today?
&nsbp;
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 1:54PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
things i have said. my mouth has left me with many regrets.
regretful poet
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 3:03PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I once told a girl that I loved her,
but I was actually after her brother.
She was my in
to get to know him,
so I let her think there was no other.

Well we went out for a while,
and I really did like her style.
But attracted I wa'nt
to her clean shaven cunt.
I wanted to be with Kyle.

Kyle and I fell in love.
When into him I'd myself shove
from in the mouth or behind
in pleasure he'd whine
and tell me "this I've been dreaming of."

One day my girlfriend walked in
and found laying with him.
I was embarrassed a lot
because I'd been caught
with Kyles jizz on my chin.

Well of course she was mad,
and I felt horribly bad.
Her I'd mislead.
I blew her brother instead,
and left a sweet girl feeling sad.

After leaving this girl mislead
I really wished I was dead.
I'd lied through my smile
while blowing kyle.
Now I'm sad I left my true thoughts unsaid.
Conundrum
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 6:22PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
I'm not saying because I fear I might regret it. Oh crap, now I regret saying what I just said.


Different Handle For Now wrote:

Things you have said or things you have left unsaid.
doo doo
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 7:24PM - in reply to Ghola Reply | Return to Index | Report Post

Ghola wrote:

No doubt, unsaid. I'm planning to correct one of the things I left unsaid later this summer, so my regrets may shift over to things I said.


This except by later this summer probably tonight or tomorrow, lol.
record holder
RE: What do you regret more? 5/20/2012 7:29PM - in reply to Different Handle For Now Reply | Return to Index | Report Post
said. including this.